Belief system:

It is supposed, our belief system (pattern of thinking we own and have confidence in) make us perceive things as we do and makes us think in particular way. Whole of which is very deep rooted. So, if at all we want to see change in our present and in our future, it is the belief system we have to address.

Most of our convictions, lack individuality to say it differently, they are obsolete, does not go well with us, limiting in nature. As a result we are short of being the kind of person we wish to be. Let us not ignore our errs but tackle them, more so by modification in our standpoint.

A quote explains it best: “Becoming an adult is learning (to)…developing, through experience, one’s own philosophy and ethics and avoiding ready-made thinking.”

Let us ask ourselves ‘what do we believe in?’ and live it out. It could be interpersonal related, about our current situation, vis-à-vis our future, regarding self and so on. If our belief system is encouraging and friendly, days to come will turn out well. There shouldn’t be disproportion in what we do and what we think and it can’t be. Exemplify further, if I believe in letting go and living in present and taking things as they come, then I can’t say this is how I want to be but for some reason  I am not able to be so; as this would result in internal conflict.  We may not be able to fix up all issues over night but let’s be affirmative.

Write a list of principle that you fancy and read it over along with execution of same. It may seem superficial at first but gradually but definitely it would sink in.
Here are a few to start off… to what one believes in:

ü Talking to the person directly with whom we hope to resolve differences

ü Understanding of the self and working to be better

ü Discretion with humility

ü Praying for all, keeping good promises

ü Respecting all irrespective of how they have been

ü Transparency in our dealings

ü Helping oneself out first

ü Speaking the faith

ü Letting go and living in present

ü Charity, fulfilling our responsibilities

ü Consistency (not wavering from our path that is right for us), taking care of our health and more importantly our thoughts