A Real Adoration: (part 2)

IMO, love is a feeling that exists between 2 individuals who look up to each other’s positives so as to appreciate and imbibe it into their own lives along with working on the personal flaws, being there, sharing, caring and helping one another to be better humans, besides fulfilling responsibilities .

I guess that was a practical and realistic definition of love. Let me explain bit more, in love we look at each other’s positives, it’s not the infatuation but the nicest quality the other person has that has made us love and if we lack in that trait we can inculcate one. We aren’t perfect hence we have our negative side as well and we aren’t bluffing our feelings so in a polite way both will strive to improve oneself and will acknowledge each other of ways it can be done.

Some other random thoughts:

§ Is love mutual or is it selfless? 

If it is mutual, it would mean give and take relationship and being selfless would mean loving without expecting anything in return. Well, it has to be selfless till a point where your love realises; you are integral, indivisible part of their existence (and it becomes mutual)

§ We are ready to over look the mistakes of our loved ones, we can’t think of harming them even in our thoughts, we are most gentle dealing with them, why can’t we treat others like we would treat the person we love most? – one of many things true fondness can teach us

§ Let me be dedicated to you and that dedication be pure...(its adoration not just love)

§ There are people who truly love you and you got to be happy for them because much of their happiness depends on your own

§ Spring is beautiful no doubt; autumn is beautiful in its own ways… Love gets strengthened as we get to know each other over years of togetherness.  Physicality anyways exists, more necessary is the emotional relation (connection at the emotional level) wherein the couple will take care of emotional needs, understand likes and dislikes, comforts and discomforts and how they ought to treat each other